Storytelling

Growing up in South Shields, England, a small seaside town on the North East coast, I have lived with the legacy of cancer for almost half a century, and I remain humbled to be one of the UK’s longest cancer survivors. ​Still, many would argue that is a negative life experience – but, for me, and ironically, it has made me who I am today. Lucky or fortunate, privileged or destined to be a survivor?

​As a consequence of the salubrious treatment I received in the seventies, I now reap the consequences of ill health, (leading to my retirement in 2021), which included another cancer diagnosis in 2019, and which sadly reoccurred again in October 2023, leading to further treatment. ​Therefore, inspiration is so important, whether that be during illness, or indeed, any kind of life adversity. When my mortality was confronted, music namely space rock legends Hawkwind and the Lakota Sioux Nation, were my inspirations. However, as chronic illness reared its ugly head once again, it was the music of Lukas Nelson (son of the legendary country icon Willie Nelson) and Promise of the Real (his band) that inspired me and drove my optimism forward. Music which is entirely different from what I had previously listened to. A unique and eclectic blend of rock, folk, and country music.

​"Remember, life is not a rehearsal – do not allow yourself to be a prisoner of the past; that was just a life lesson, not a life sentence. Never look back on your life unless you are prepared to smile and be reflective, and never look forward unless you can dream—we all need dreams, and we all need hope."

Since the age of seventeen, I have only been out of work once since leaving school, which was for ten months during the diagnosis and treatment of my four-year-old daughter Donna, with terminal leukaemia (a legitimate excuse I am sure you will agree). ​My working career began as a welder in a local Shipyard before the spectre of cancer gripped my life in a deathly stranglehold, refusing to let go. Then after Donna’s illness, I retrained as a nurse (working exclusively in cancer services), ending my career at South Tyneside NHS Trust as a senior clinical nurse specialist, the same hospital that made my diagnosis almost fifty years earlier. Now that is one hell of a twist of fate!

​Today, in retirement, I have turned my focus to a passion for storytelling - writing children’s fiction. Fortunately, I am now being recognised as a serious children’s fiction book author – and I am loving it.

​So, after years of taking my grandchildren on weird and wonderful imaginary adventures, and elasticated journeys from landing on the Moon to saving the King of England, I decided to use the retirement process to share my tales with the world’s children. ​

​Currently, I have just about completed my sixth title, ‘Mind-Boggling Stories,’ and although my third, fourth and fifth titles are still to be released, these should hit the shelves in Summer 2024. More significantly, I have lots more ideas for 2025.

All of that said, I am so proud of my memoirs, ‘Me and My Shadow – memoirs of a Cancer Survivor,’ as it has given inspiration to so many, and hopefully, will continue to do so. As a consequence, I continue to travel around the North of England on a quest for inspirational speaking engagements that deliver to the audience hope and inspiration, and to me, a catharsis.

TO INCULCATE THE HABIT AS GOOD LISTNER

Another important prerequisite to become highly successful and win the excellent good relationship is to be a good listener.

If you observe the people around you, most of them would take up the role of speakers, but not the listeners. If you are giving any chance for the person to talk, he will talk to you more and more about the problem, his life adventures and goes on and on, because in reality, there is a huge shortage of listeners.

If you are a good listener, you will understand the other persons personality trades, which were in turn help you to detail him accordingly.  You will come to know for example, about your priorities, hobbies, his positive and negative points and lot of other aspects about which you will stimulate some kind of emotional interest in him and get the job done. 

On the other hand, if you are a speaker you will not be able to gain anything much because you are giving more and more about information to other persons and you are not getting anything from him. So, the exchange is imbalance.

Hence, in life, please try to cultivate the habit as good listener than speaker. Whenever asks for any suggestion at that tie you can give him in a subtle way and positive way, that is again using the technique ‘Agee to Disagree” or ‘Yes But No’ technique. This way, it is very easy to understand other human being as a very good listener.

A person who talks very less and gets the jobs done is the real creative sales person according to most successful managers of a highly reputable firm.

We were having a very light dinner at one Restaurant. This manager whose name was Mr. Gopalakrishnan was very well known and very much experienced in a multinational company.  Casually we were discussing and when I asked him, according to him, who was the best person in sales, he told me a person, who talks less and gets more, would be the best and is a matured sales person.

This is what he told me. Never interrupt any person who has been telling about himself on any subject, never, never and ever try to interrupt. One should do it so out of some curiosity or some hastiness or may be to impress the other person; you would have lost the track. Never interrupt when somebody is talking to you particularly in official life.

In personal life, if you are finding the subject very boring, you can break it up. But, in real life, when you talking to an elderly person with whom you had some proposal or some official work, never interrupt and never impose your ideas or impressions without asking for, on him.

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THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE 
OF
EXCHANGE OF ENERGY

The Universe is full of exchange of energies. There is a standard and universal principle in the nature and there is always exchange of energies. When we say exchange, this exchange takes place between two or more number of people. We are living in the society and we are not alone in the society. All of us are contributing something to the society and hence there is always exchange of energies. This is the guiding principle in the famous proverb which says “What you sow so shall you reap.” To make it very simple if you sow the seed of love, in return or in exchange you will get many folds of energy of love.

Just as when you are sowing a seed, when you are offering water, when you are preparing the salt and you are taking care that the plant is receiving proper sunlight if you nurture the seed regularly it means that you are spending some energy of love, care. And as a result of spending the energy a small sapling comes out and grows into a plant or tree and against one seed you will get plenty of fruits, vegetables, flowers, fruits and also oxygen. A plant takes carbon-di-oxide and gives out Oxygen. Therefore, you cannot expect anything in return without giving anything from your side.

There is a deepest urge in all the human beings to get appreciation, attention, recognition and feeling of importance, honor etc. If you want people to appreciate, in return you need to appreciate others, if you want attention from the other people or the society; you need to give attention to the people or the society. If you want to get name and fame you also have to give name and fame to others. Like this we can give plenty of examples. On the contrary if you are giving the negative energy, you will get or you will receive negative energy only in many folds just like if you are planting a seed of thorny plant which gives a plant or a tree only with thorns. If you are doing a misdeed or harm and this misdeed or harm will manifest by many folds in the form of thorns and poisonous seeds. Hence, we need to remember that there is always an exchange of energies. If you are giving out the negative energy, in return you will receive the negative energy by many folds as we have illustrated in the above example. This is how the nature awards us.

If you want to be successful in your life, if you want to be well acceptable by the society first of all, you have to learn to give out something useful for the society. Even if you do not expect also you will be rewarded. Most of the people complain that they were not rewarded properly in spite of the fact that they have put forth lot of hard work. But this is not true. Nature is never biased. Everything is guarded by the standard well set rules by the nature. Nature does not have any discrimination. Hence, we need to be very careful in what we say and in what we do. In most of the spiritual books the wise men have confirmed that the most powerful energy is the energy of the love. This energy of love can change the atmosphere around you. And only thing is this energy has to be pure without any selfish desires. This is how the nature responds and awards. Hence whatever you want from the society because it is the society first gives you. You need to give the same kind of energy to the society unconditionally. Now let us examine the pre-requisites of a successful and a happy human being who is very well accepted by the society. First let us discuss about the physical appearance. As a person you need to interact with the other person or persons in your day-to-day activities. The people will not see your personality and most of the people they misunderstand by the word personality. They think that physical characters or the physical attitudes are the personality. But personality is nothing but the sum of physical and mental attitudes. More so, the mental attitudes as they reflect in the physical attitudes. Mental attitudes cannot be seen. When you are meeting any person or persons in your life for the first time may be if you are attending the interview, playing a game or any sports, attending a social function for the first time the people will not see your inner personality, your mental attitudes. What they see is your physical appearance. Hence the physical appearance is very important when you are meeting the people on different occasions. The dress code is very important. If you are attending an interview wearing sober colored dress, polished shoes and properly trimmed hair cut with a smiling face, the interviewer will be impressed and will give a positive response. Neat dress need not be costly one but simple one light colored and neatly pressed without any folds as wise people long time back told that “The first appearance is the best appearance”. Hence, we need to give definitely a lot of importance to our physical appearance. Then why only these sober colors why not dark colors? The Light colors have a very soothing effect on the other person as colors have their own vibratory levels. They have their own vibrations and these vibrations are very magnetic. These vibrations are the manifestation of your inner personality which is your mental attitude. This magnetic field around you will affect the other person in a positive way. When you are alert, disciplined, self-confident, thorough in the subject and you know how to behave will be reflected through your physical attributes. Therefore, the dress code is very important. If you are wearing dark colors definitely these dark colors distract the attention of the other person and you will not get a positive response in most of the cases. A lot of research has been done on the effect of colors and many giant organizations pay huge amount of money to the experts. Experts have done lot of research on the colors. Even though you are highly educated, a very knowledgeable person, but your dress code is not proper and imagine you are facing the interview for the first time there are chances that the interviewer will not be having a positive impression about you. Once an impression is made it is very difficult for him to change the impression on you. Hence the physical and the mental attitudes they have to match perfectly.

Most of the time even the odor or the smell of the sweat disturbs other person. And hence If you have the tendency of too much perspiration you can spray mild perfume which will give out pleasant response from the other people

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VISION AND REMEDIES ON DIVORC 

Marriages and performing marriages are very old traditions.  Marriages are performed in great style.  During the marriage functions, huge amounts are spent, for various purposes.  Marriage is a onetime function in one’s life.  Everybody hopes and expects that the bride and bridegroom should lead a happy marriage life.  After marriage, both bride and bridegroom should understand each other in every aspect, including financial, domestic, relationships and also professional career aspects.  It is, of course, to have a good insight on these aspects.  In earlier years, say during 1950’s to 2000’s, many marriages that took place and were successfully established their family in spite of many difficulties including financial aspects.  The problems were not there with the husband and wife till 2000 year.

            The problems slowly started emanating since the introduction of computerization.  Everybody became qualified, everybody became software engineers and everybody became earning members.  Moreover, huge salaries were being received especially by the ITeans in the IT sector.  Slowly, likes and dislikes started amongst many newlywed couple.  One does not know why?  There was lot of resentments with the newly married people.  The reasons are self-explanatory and may be plenty.  During the recent past, mostly in IT field who were working on software side and other related fields, love affairs became common.  Many marriages took place.  Simultaneously, there were many divorce cases.  The reasons for divorce are not well known.  Some people work at America, some people work at UK, some at Singapore, Australia, and Germany etc. 

Generally software people, who ones leave India for careers sake, never return to India.  People get settled at somewhere in some country.  They even become green card holders.  These people never bothered to get married up to the age of 35-40 years.  Many of the divorce cases are pending in various courts in India. These cases go on dragging.  Even parents are never bothered about their children’s marriage performance.

            One B Tech Itean marriage took place in India four years back with one B Tech girl.  Both went to America.  What transpired between them was not known.  The girl opted for divorce.  The divorce came after 5 years. The bridegroom had paid compensation around Rs 10.00 lakhs to the bride. There were several divorce cases pending in the courts for want of divorce. It looks that divorce has become common and regular feature.  On many petty, silly and waste matters, young couples are opting for divorce.  Most of the parents are the worried lot.  One does not know why things are leading to divorce.  It looks; we have been observing so many of misunderstandings with the new couples.  In some cases, in spite of counseling, people are not adhering and going in for divorce cases.  It looks, there is somewhere, some problem exists.

            In another known divorce case, one B Tech boy, software engineer married to one MCA girl.  Within three months, the girl opted for divorce from the boy.  One does not know any reason for this.  The bride’s parents looks to have played a major role in this. This incident happened one year ago.  Both bride and bridegroom are presently living separately.  The bride is yet to file a divorce case in the court of law.  It takes another 3-4 years easily for getting divorce in the court of law.

Before the Marriage engagement function, Both the Bridegroom and the Bride have to register their names with the competent authority of that jurisdiction or with Sub-Registrar of Marriages or any Authorized Nodal Agency or with any Government nominated Nodal Agencies either directly or through eSeva or Mee Seva Center’s, and a Certificate to the effect that so and so would like to get Marriage engagement on such a particular day, month and year and following by Marriage on a particular day, month and year.  This is only an intimation to the Government through proper channels, so that, the Government would be kept informed about the Marriage engagement and Marriage Function of particular Bridegroom and Bride. So also, local Station House Officer [Police Station] also to be kept informed about the Marriage engagement and Marriage Function with dates fixed for these functions. This will definitely, avoid future problems, troubles and other unforeseen marriage litigations and post-marriage complications, if any, arising out of misunderstandings in both the family groups. This system will work out well, and could possibly avoid post-marriage mis-understandings which may lead to divorce.

Presently, after Marriage is over, the new couple are going in for Marriage Certificates and approaching the Sub-Registrar’s Office or any authorized e-Seva or Mee Seva Centre’s for issue of Marriage Certificate. These are all called post-de-facto Certificates.

In advance, obtaining the Marriage Engagement Certificate and followed by Marriage Certificate, could reduce divorce cases.

            Parent’s involvement with the young couples looks to be the primary aspect.  Parents influence is the cause for many broken marriages.  One do not know why parents to interfere in the newlywed couple’s life.  Always new couples should be asked to live separately.

            Brides parents in India are afraid to perform marriage to bridegrooms working at foreign countries, fearing break-in marriage may take place. Moreover, there are many marriage sites existing in the websites.  It has become a very common feature to search for brides and bridegrooms.  All personal profiles look to be good and attractive.

            Now-a-days, every bride needs a software engineer bridegroom.  The main criteria are the salary package of the bridegroom.  How much bridegroom is earning.  Whether the bridegroom is having any property, lands, own building or flat including a car.  This is the criteria for any bride.  Moreover, brides are not getting married up to the age of 30-35 years. These brides want to earn as much as possible before marriage takes place.  This is the state of affair. When compared to present trend of marriages, alliances in olden day’s marriage, alliances took place in a very simple manner. Though in olden days, there was no much of money circulation, all the marriages were performed well and almost all the marriages got well established.  The problem has cropped-up, when the IT field is in full swing.  It looks, IT field only the root cause for divorce cases and break-in-marriages. One will pray The God that no more divorce cases are foreseen in the near future.

The Vision of a Bride before marriage alliance is needed, so as to assess the bridegroom’s habits.  This vision is to be counselled to all would be brides well before hand. This vision will enable would be brides to assess the bridegroom’s habits.  If this is assessed well before hand, then there will not be much of Divorce cases in the near future. This type of vision is essentially needed in these years.

To some extent remedies, after marriage, to avoid divorce would also work-out. But, however, such remedies go a long way and sometimes it may work out positively or may not work. But, divorce cases shall be avoided if proper care and remedies are taken. The first and the foremost point is to see that the Husband should not take any alcoholic drugs or drinks.  This is the main reason where marriage life get broke. For example, I will give below a small article like story, which will enlighten the couples and also would be bride and bridegrooms.

The main reason for the divorce are the habits of husbands. Husbands bad habits like drinking, drug addicting, gambling committing more debts and making uneasy environment in the family circles lead to Divorce. The remedies are essentially needed for such people. More of counselling is needed to such alcohol addicted husbands.

As an Author, I have number of friends who are regular drinkers in the social circles.  Drinking alcohol is not an issue. One can drink on few occasions. There is no problem.  But, continuously taking alcohol, day-in and day-out and dreaming high and building castles in the air, is not at all correct.  Many people lost even their lives due to high and regular drinking.  In this aspect, I would like to project few of the incidents below for the information and knowledge of all the readers.

            DRUNKARDS live in third world, enjoy and dream more. In this world of life, some people are accustomed and habituated to social drinking of alcohol including wine, vodka, brandy, and cocktails.  Taking alcohol in business sector for maintaining business relations is one thing.  Consuming alcohol of different types including foreign brands, standard brands, local made alcohol by upper middle class people are another thing.  Enjoying all types of alcohol brands each day by middle class people and lower middle class people on some occasions, looks to be common everywhere.  Taking local made liquor and other local made cheap liquor and toddy is very common and frequent by the hard labor.

            All the Governments are getting quite a good amount of revenue through the sale of different types of various liquor brands.  Few Governments depend for substantial revenue through various types of taxes.  Some Governments encourage liquor sales and some Governments do not encourage liquor sales.  Few Governments, on earlier occasions banned liquor sales in their respective States, landed in trouble due to huge loss of Government revenue thereby failed to run the governance and administration and even lost the political power. On later years, the same Governments which banned the liquor revoked the sale of liquor to raise the revenue substantially.

            Drinking alcohol in top circles (social, business, and political circles) has become the order of the day.  Lest, it is difficult to maintain the good business-socio-political relations at all levels.  Taking top alcohol brands, foreign brands, whisky and scotch in such top circles, looks to be a fashion and necessary; whereas, consuming liquor each day-in and day-out and partying every day may lead to problems.  Few people only can afford to lead such lavish style of life.

            Some upper middle class people in various business fields and sectors take regular drunks. Mostly now-a-days is seen in Information Technology field, consume liquor on week-ends and enjoy a lot.  But, this is also a costly affair.  Many people are in the middle class sector habituated to liquor of all brands and consume liquor on daily basis, by spending their hard earned money.  Even hard labor consumes local made liquor brands each day by almost spending their 60 percent of earnings.

            There are many risks involved after consuming liquor.  Number of people each day fall prey to road accidents, while some people who drive in intoxicated condition their two and four wheelers also meet with accidents.

            I have seen many people and few known friends who take alcohol on regular basis right from morning and evening are financially helpless condition to meet their family expenses and are unable to meet their regular needs for their children’s education.  It is quite a saddening affair.  Even some people who consume liquor daily are branded as ‘Drunkard’ and no social respect is given to them.

            I will give one example which I had. On one occasion, I engaged an auto-rickshaw to go to city shopping mall.  The auto driver had put on start the digital auto meter.  After passing some distance, I was getting some alcoholic type smell in the auto-rickshaw.  I thought, it was some petrol or diesel smell.  After some time, I thought it was gas auto-rickshaw. After few minutes, I thought it fit to ask the auto driver about the smell which was emanating from the auto. I was able to judge that it was alcohol smell coming from the auto driver.  No doubt, I was correct in my thinking. It was alcohol smell. Then I asked the auto-rickshaw driver whether he was intoxicated with alcoholic drunk.  He replied boldly, stating that Sir, I took a small quantum of liquor. I told him to stop the auto-rickshaw.  Immediately, the driver of the auto stopped.  I asked him, why you took alcohol when you are taking the passengers, while charging for auto service.  Is it not your duty to see the passenger’s safety?  He politely replied, sir, sorry.  It was a mistake taking alcohol and driving the auto.  I told him that, if you continue to take liquor or alcohol at this middle age, then, I don’t think you will live long and you will not be able to see your children’s marriages and your grandchildren.  Moreover, I told your spouse will have to do servant-maid job, or beg people for survival in case of any harm is done to your life.

            I told the auto driver straight-away that, people who are intoxicated with third brand liquor, or local made liquor will not live long.

            Then the auto driver replied, sir, I will stop drinking habit from now-on.  The driver realized the truth in my speaking to him on the facts.  I got down at my place and the auto driver refused to take auto charges for my good advice.

Drunkard habits are like this:

They abscond to offices.  They never work.  They make money by pledging various articles including gold and silver for the sake of drinking.  They quarrel when they are in bad moods.  They don’t speak properly.  They even speak vulgar language outside as well as at home.  They even quarrel with counterparts and their own children.  They live in third world and their dreams are high.  They make unnecessary chit-chat, speak on waste subjects and make time pass without any productive work.

            Intoxicated and drug addicted people never listen to others. They spend money towards alcohol, wine and on intoxicated items and never give money to their spouse and children.

            I have seen many of the drunkards lost their jobs, dislocated their family status, landed in many criminal cases.

Generally drunkards become gamblers in one way or the other. Gambling in the sense, playing cards, horse racing, Number games, Lottery, betting on various sports.  It is observed that quite a number of horse racing punters consume liquor and bet during horse races on horses.  It is very common that people play cards while consuming liquor of their choice and simultaneously smoke cigarettes.

One could see in many places very lengthy parked motor cycles and cards in front of wine shops, Bars and Restaurants, Toddy shops and in front of Janata Bars and Star Hotels.  Many of the Wine Shops are located in thick residential places, near to temples, and even adjacent to schools/colleges/offices/bus stands/railway stations.  Every drunkard spends money on local brand liquor and waste time, energy and loose health.  Even some regular drunkard’s beg small amounts of money and ask hot drinks from some known drunkard-mates.

Some Governments owned Wine Shops earn substantial revenue directly. All the people are influenced to take the liquor on one occasion or the other.

It is a very well-known fact, that in any major political election, municipal elections, local body elections, panchayat elections, company/factory elections, society elections etc., the liquor flows like water.  Without the supply of liquor, people looks like not tempted to work or participate in elections.  These are the back-door methods to tempt a person.

Some people consume liquor due to frustrations, family problems, financial problems, domestic problems and what not problems.  Of course, reasons are plenty to consume liquor.  Persons who are alcoholics have one reason or the other to substantiate them.  Naturally regular alcoholics will not find their growth easy.  Their family life gets dislocated and disturbed.  They often lose patience. They land in financial troubles.  They never get social respect in family and friends circle.  They are never able to meet good medical treatments in needs of time, due to lack of funds.  People never come forward to help morally or financially to drunkards.

In some States, liquor flow looks to be seen as more than cash flow.  In some States and villages drinking water is not available to common person; but, all types of liquor is made available at cost.  At some places, whoever purchases liquor, water of 100 Milli Liter or 200 Milli Liter sachets are given free of cost.

It is, many a times observed that drunkards and regular alcohol drinkers are always irregular to their professional works, due to uneasy, ill-health and hangovers.  Regular drunkards mind will be very simple, that they want to consume liquor some-how.  Drunkards always speak non-stop and good orators at that particular intoxication ti8me and power of speech will be more. They get extra energy at some particular point of time.  But, drunkards become weak and slowly lose their health and land in major health problems.  Drunkard’s longevity is reduced.  Drunkards lose their social status, family reputation will be lost, living standards will fall-down, and social respect will be lost, children’s education will be disturbed and many long run family troubles and disturbances are to be foreseen, which even can lead to divorce of husband and wife, all due to consumption of alcohol, infighting within the family and domestic circles will be frequent and regular.

For alcoholics and drunkards, there are de-addiction centers, rehabilitation centers, nature cure centers and many other Non-Governmental Organization centers could be seen at number of places.  Such centers addresses could be located through search engine websites like yahoo.com, google.com, rediffmail.com etc.

Drunkards can reduce their drinking habits, smoking habits and other narcotic drugs habits slowly, if they want to stop consumption of all types of intoxicated items.  Every person has got The God given Will Power.

All the good habits Pay on one day or the other to a person and for bad habits one has to pay the cost at one time or the other.

Thank  You

VISION AND REMEDIES ON DIVORCE

                                                                                                             By                         

MANTRI PRAGADA MARKANDEYULU

[B Com, DBM, PGDCA, DCCP]

Author, Story and Song Writer.

Hyderabad -Telangana State – India

+91-9951038802

DISPARITY ©

Generally the managements of Pubs, Janata Bars, Bars & Restaurants and Star Hotels are to show respect and magnanimity to all its customers.

On Holi day of 2015 year in Delhi, a differently-abled, specially abled Mr. Nipun Malhotra, youth, in his around 30 years, who was in a wheel-chair, was not allowed to enter Delhi Pub & club ‘Keya’.

The Security Guard has stopped him from entering into the Pub & the club in his wheel chair.

This discrimination had a wide spread resentment all over Delhi and other States.

When the Pub management issued with License to run the Pub, every citizen is having right to enter the Pub & Club and enjoy.

All the adults, including ladies, aged people, people with disabilities, are allowed to enjoy in the Pub, of course, on cost.

The ‘Keya’ pub management is charging for its services, including imposing entertainment tax, central excise tax, sales tax, service tax and other what not taxes on various items to its customers.

Right to admission into the Pub & Club is a primary right of each and every customer.

There was no reason why the Pub & Club management denied the entry of Mr. Nipun Malhotra who was differently abled and disabled gentleman.

One wonders, why the Pub & Club management has denied the entry of this gentleman.

Social service organizations, NGOs, Government and the Central Excise Department and other departments have to see that this type of incidents do not occur in future.

Many of the aged people above 60’s and 70’s do visit pubs, clubs, bars & restaurants and other top star hotels and resorts in wheel chairs.

For such people, a special care and attention is to be given by the respective managements.

All the necessary help is to be extended to these people. Of course, these managements are charging for their services with all types of taxes.

No management is serving free of cost to anybody.

The Central Excise Department and Government to display the guidelines at the entrance of any Pub, Club, Resorts, or Bar & Restaurants or any Star Hotels for information of all the customers, irrespective of caste, creed and religion.

Even some old aged people consume alcohol, wine, brandy and other cocktail drinks to keep-up their physical fitness, especially in mid-rainy season and in winter season.

In some cases, doctors even advise these old age people to have alcohol to some quantum for maintaining good health.

In some cases these people also visit pubs, clubs, bars & restaurants, resorts with the support of wheel-hair, walking stick and other supporting operates/equipment.

All the pub & club management’s bar & restaurants, star hotels Etc. are to give some priority service and provide special care to the senior citizens and differently abled people.

Moreover, the Central Excise and the Government to extend some concessional rates and other benefits as a magnanimous gesture, from the Government to all the senior citizens, physically handicapped persons, mentally retarded persons.

There should be Right to Entry boards at the entry of Pubs, Clubs, Bars, Restaurants, Hotels, Malls, Multiplexes, Resorts, Museums, Parks and Gardens.

MANTRI PRAGADA MARKANDEYULU

Email: mrkndyl@gmail.com

Hyderabad, India

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DOMESTIC ENGINEER ©

(A Comic Scene)

By

Mantri Pragada Markandeyulu

Email: mrkndyl@gmail.com

Bharat:         Hello Dear, How R U

Krishnan:     Yes, I am fine Doing Good.

Bharat:         How R your official works going on.

Krishan:       Well. Good. Smooth going.Trouble-free official works.

Bharat:         Did you do any family Insurance?

Krishnan:     Not yet.

Bharat:         Why don’t U do Insurance coverage for U and your family.

Krishnan:     I have to think-over.

 Bharat:        What is there to think in it.

     You can take a decision after an ingenious thought.

Krishnan:     No. No. I’ve to consult, take advice and approval from my “Domestic Engineer”

Bharat:         What?

Who is that Domestic Engineer?

I’ve not followed U.

Krishnan:     What? U don’t know who is ‘Domestic Engineer?

                    What man.

            You are in Public Relations side.

                    You should know certain terminologies.

Bharat:         Please tell me what ‘Domestic Engineer” means.

Krishnan:     Its none other than ‘House Keeper’

Bharat:         What? ‘House Keeper’?

Krishnan:     I’ll tell you later, dear

Bharat:         Oh, okay. No problem.

Krishnan:     I’ve to take permission and approval from my ‘Domestic Engineer’

                    On my every plan of mine and every action.

Bharat:         What is there Mr. Krishnan, you are working.

             You are earning.

             You are running family.

     You can take decisions from your side for your own growth and future.

     You are the bread-earner.

Krishnan:     No. No. I don’t have any power.

                    Full powers are with my ‘Domestic Engineer’

Bharat:         What is the Delegation of Power?

                     I’ve not followed you.

Krishnan:      After marriage, my wife, has been automatically delegated with certain powers under our                                  Constitution, Acts, Ordinance, Rules & Regulations.

Bharat:         Can you please explain me more on this?

 Krishnan:    Oh. U don’t know?

     It looks U have a boot-mind.

     U R a Tube-light.

     Please brush-up your mind.

Bharat:         Okay I am not that fast as like you Mr. Krishnan.

Krishnan:         After marriage, wife takes-over full powers from Husband.

                        Husband becomes voiceless.

                        All my powers are squeezed.

                        I am powerless Puppet Husband.

                        House-wife is the whole-and-sole in-charge with 100% powers.

                        So, I’ll have to take approvals from my counter-part.

                        I’ll let you know about your Insurance Policy later.

                        Without any approvals from my wife, I can’t do anything.

                        I am helpless.

                        I’ve No Power whatsoever it may be.

Bharat:            Yes. Yes. Wife is always powerful.

                        I am realizing now.

Krishnan:        Late realization is far better than complete ignorance and

               negligence.

Bharat:         Now these days belongs to women.

             It’s Women’s era Trending now.

                     It’s their power.

                     It’s their voice.

                     It’s their will-power.

Krishnan:     Yes. Now Women era Trending.

                     Government supports their causes.

                     All Human Rights Commission Organizations supports women.

                     All Women’s Associations always support Women only.

             Husband should act like a Puppet in the presence of his wife.

             Husband has to dance to the tune of his wife.

             Lest, No Entertainment. No Peace of Mind. No Happiness.

             No Food. No Shelter. Nothing. Nothing and Nothing.

Bharat:         Okay.

                     I’ll contact you later.

Krishnan:     Please Don’t contact me.

                    I’ll only contact U

 Bharat:       Okay. Guru.

    Then Bye.

    Dear Mr. Krishnan, you’ve not told me about the

   “Domestic Engineer”.

    What it stands for?

Krishnan:     I’ve explained you well above.

Still, you’ve not followed.

Really your brain is Not Sharp.

Your mind is a Tube-light.

I got it Confirmed Now. 

For your information, I tell you that “Domestic Engineer” is none other than Wife.

“House Wife” is called “Domestic Engineer”.

House Maker is also called ‘Domestic Engineer”. 

By calling “Domestic Engineer”, all the house-wives feel happy and think that they are also Engineers.

Of course, even academically non-qualified women also feel happy if they are called “Domestic Engineers” instead of calling as “House Wife” Or “House Maker”.

You should know well that “Engineer” is a great word recognized allover the Globe.

So, “Domestic Engineer” word is Trending now all-over the Globe.

Now, Mr. Bharat, did you understand What the “Domestic Engineer” means?

Bharat:    Yes. Yes.

        I fully understood the word “Domestic Engineer”.

Krishnan:    Okay, Mr. Bharat.

           You don’t worry about the Insurance.

   When time comes, I will get in touch with you.

Sure.

You don’t worry.

Bharat:    Okay.

        Guruji.

        Then Bye.

Krishnan: See Mr. Bharat, Please know well that If I speak anything extra

before my “Domestic Engineer, Sure, there will be a Civil War which will start from my house only.

So, better to keep silent always with Domestic Engineer.

Bharat:   Okay Mr. Krishnan.

       Noted.          

       Thank you.

       Good Bye.

       And Bye And Bye.

Krishnan:     Bye Mr. Bharat.

                        Be Happy.

                        Be Cool.

                        Be Pleasant

                        All the Best.

                        Good Luck.

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MANTRI PRAGADA MARKANDEYULU Litt.D.,

Poet, Novelist, Song and Story Writer

B. Com, DBM, PGDCA, DCP,

(Visited Nairobi-Kenya, East Africa)

BIG SHARK

Sir Knew Well, Things Not Moving Well

Going in For Support, a Late Thought

Fools and Madmen Speak the Truth

Fool’s Grow without watering ǁ

Outstanding, Nine Thousand crore

Not Hands-Up, Still Needs Loan

Properties Seized, Still Sitting Pretty

Wants to Go-In for Loans, What A Shark ǁ

Fighting in Blame Game and Reverse Gear

Says, Not a Criminal, But a Civilian

Questions Judiciary, Goes for Battle

Opt for Loan Waiver, Air the Views ǁ

Runs Pillar to Post

Sportsman, For the Love of the Game

Horse Owner, Good Cloths Open All Doors

Liquor King, Fortune Favors Brave

…

SCAMS AND BLACK MONEY

The Indian economy is jeopardized somewhat little bit, due to good number of big scams, black money hoarding, and heavy bank defaults, black marketing, money laundering cases corruption where very big projects are involved. Its tax payer’s money being bumped into the hands of bank loan defaulters which was in thousands of crores of Indian Rupees. Really speaking, the rupee money value has been devaluated thereby the Indian financial position has been put into doldrums. Though the Government is taking good steps to bring back all the black money from foreign banks, due to various acts, rules, regulations, RBI rules, Banking rules, Home Department rules, FERA, and FEMA rules, getting the black money from foreign banks has become a big problem.  Its Tax Payers money and Poor Peoples’ money which ultimately lands in the hands of big sharks who take bank loans and become defaulters. A small case study reveals various aspects and enlightens regarding these SCAMS AND BLACK MONEY.

          Several problems do come in one’s life.  One has to confront and solve such problems one by one.  Each day, there will be a problem.  Without a problem, a day will not pass.  Problems do exist throughout the life.  Some problems will have to be solved by one self; some problems will be solved by family members and friends, so on and so forth.  There are childhood problems, youth problems, adult problems, middle-age problems, aged problems and old age problems. Life itself is entangled with un-ending issues and problems.  Some problems are solvable with solutions.  Some problems will get solved automatically in due course of time and sometimes time will solve the unsolvable issues & problems. There are number of problems most of the people confront.

            For example, most of the people confront educational problems, employment problems, love affair problems, marriage problems, business problems, political problems, civil & criminal cases problems, children’s’ problems etc.

            Life is such that one has to bear all these problems, if they commit blunders & mistakes. Since we have taken birth as a human being, how best one can lead a good life is a multi-million-dollar question.  Completing the life cycle by completing the family bonding with affection is equally important than earning the money in life.  Of course, earning money is necessary, but one has to choose the right path to earn money to lead the life.

            Earning money in right path is one aspect and earning illegally is another aspect.  But it is sure that people who earn illegal money through corruption method shall land in problems one day or the other. There are many instances.  The illegal properties, cash & gold acquired by Government officials and business people through illegal ways sere confiscated by the Anti-corruption Bureau, Central Bureau of Investigation, Enforcement Directorate Income Tax Department, Revenue Department, Various Banks, Central Excise Department, Ministry of Finance, Reserve Bank of India, Ministry of Home Affairs and other departments like Sales Tax Department etc.  The people who are caught by these departments are booked under various sections.  Even in many cases, the properties, cash & gold are seized and confiscated pertaining to the brothers, sisters, close relatives, friends and distant relatives, in many cases. This is the big embarrassment to the main victim and culprits.

            Most of the big corruption money is involved in big scams running in millions.  Such black and corruption money is kept in various private foreign banks in different countries.  If such black money and corrupted money is used towards building facilities like public toilets, government function halls, government malls, government free cinema theatres, and other pro-poor related facilities, it will be hailed by one and all. Of course         , this black money and corruption money belong to general public and common people. It is peoples’ money.  People are paying money in various ways through taxes. People are not living at free of cost.  There is no free food to people. Each one has to earn and eat in their livelihood.  The opportunities for earning substantial money are limited, unless otherwise one is reasonably highly qualified or prosper in any business field. Nobody can acquire huge properties in overnight, unless one is entangled in corruption methods.  Such corrupted people would be brought to book one day or the other.  At such time these corrupted people shall have to confront the serious allegations, consequences and are bound to land in four wall jails.  Government and its various departments, as aforesaid, would always watch such corruption crimes with third eye.  Watch & watch is always there in third country.  There are many “watch dog” organizations, whose duty is always to have vigilance over fraudsters and on corruption matters.

MONEY – MONEY

World Is Money

Everything Is Money

Go After Money

Takes You to Four Wall ǁ

Money Makes You Everything

Money Lands You in Trouble

Money Takes You Sky High

Money Lands You in Deep Sea ǁ

Glad to Have Money

Bold to Hide the Treasure

Builds Treasure Island

Wash Away in Tsunami ǁ

Money Power Is Great

Your Power Is Lost

Money Makes You Fly High

Money Dumps you in the Sea ǁ

Money Takes You to Parliament Hall

Money Lands You to Four Wall Hall

Greatness of Money Makes You Zero

Money and Money, Everything Money ǁ

            It is an open secret that many ministers, government officials both at Central level and at State level were involved and are involved in many big scams running into several thousands of million rupees/dollars/pounds Etc., which had pushed the country’s economy into back-seats.  These scans reflect the poor economy of the country and ultimately the common man has to bear all the costs that may come in the form of taxes, increase in cost of living etc.  These scams, for example, to mention a few are – Bofor’s scam, coal scam, 2G Telecom scam, Indian Stock Market Manipulation scam, Stamp Paper scam, CWG scam.

            It looks to be that the country’s political working system is stronger and powerful than the governance of various departments.  Sometimes, the government also drags on the various scams due to politicization of issues and involvement of top government supporting political parties and Midas touch top VVIPs leaders, who hail from inner circles of the government.

            Who is going to question the Government? Has anybody dares to question the Government? If anybody questions the Government on various scams, such people would sure to land in troubles and would invite problems on one day or the other.  However, the scan issues and other corruption related matters would be seen as hot topics only during the Lok Sabha, Rajya Sabha and at State Assembly proceeding time.

            As everybody knew, various Government Agencies, Inquiry Commissions Etc., drag on the issues related to scams for number of years.  Even the ‘scan reports’ on any issued are submitted to Government, there will not be any further action and all such ‘Inquiry Reports” are sent to ‘cold storage’.

            In such circumstances, ‘who will question whom?’ Who will ‘bell the cat’ for actions on scamsters? This is an unending subject.  At the end of a movie cinema, there will be ‘The End’; but, here in ‘scams’ there is no ‘End’. One will have to wait & watch for a bigger scam, to forget older scam.

            Some special courts are handling these scam cases and will handle these scam cases further.

            But, however, huge public money and huge Government money is involved in each and e very scam.  Ultimately common man is the sufferer.  Who will blame whom? Who is answerable? How things will move? Is there any Government   strategy to stop future scams? How the Government handle the old scams? Is the Union Government and each respective State Governments are instituting any ‘special secret agencies’ or ‘secret investigation teams’ for bringing the ‘financial scamsters, fraudsters and culprits’ to Law Book? If so, how much time it will take to close the old scams? It is a matter to wait and see.

            For stealing, forgery, illegal earning, cheating of country’s cash treasure financial resources and transferring the black money to foreign bank accounts, without the permissions of Ministry of Finance, Central Bank, FERA, FEMA Etc., tantamount to financial fraud financial irregularities and serious financial crimes which needs attention for criminal, financial, civil and other investigations to book culprits and to bring back such black money to India.  In such cases, culprits’ properties could be seized to enable pay back the Government/Public/Investors/Institutions money.  In these cases, judicial involvement, Ministry of Home Affairs, Police Department and Civil Administration departments etc. have the duty in the ‘black money recovery processes through legal system, as per laid down procedure. Some leaders and political party big-wigs, when asked about the scams enquiry progress, they express some ‘crocodile tears feel face’ for the way the investigations are conducted at the Turquoise speed”

            If this is the case and situation, then one can think 21st century will go and 22nd century will definitely come, many senior and aged political, civil and administration bigwigs and diplomats may vanish by then, and all these scam cases will disappear and become as “unsolved mystery scams”, due to “unknown & reasons beyond self-explanatory” and or persons involved in the scan “not existing on earth”. Finally, The God only knew how these big scams would get conclude?

స్కామ్‌లు మరియు నల్లధనం (Scams and Black Money): 

ఒకరి జీవితంలో అనేక సమస్యలు వస్తాయి. ఇలాంటి సమస్యలను ఒక్కొక్కటిగా ఎదుర్కొని పరిష్కరించుకోవాలి. ప్రతి రోజూ ఏదో ఒక సమస్య వస్తూనే ఉంటుంది. సమస్య లేకుండా, ఒక రోజు గడిచిపోదు. సమస్యలు జీవితాంతం ఉంటాయి. కొన్ని సమస్యలను స్వయంగా పరిష్కరించుకోవాలి; కొన్ని సమస్యలు కుటుంబ సభ్యులు మరియు స్నేహితుల ద్వారా పరిష్కరించబడతాయి, మొదలైనవి. బాల్య సమస్యలు, యువత సమస్యలు, పెద్దల సమస్యలు, మధ్యవయస్సు సమస్యలు, వృద్ధాప్య సమస్యలు ఉన్నాయి. జీవితమే అంతులేని సమస్యలు మరియు సమస్యలతో చిక్కుకుపోయింది. కొన్ని సమస్యలు పరిష్కారాలతోనే పరిష్కరించబడతాయి. కొన్ని సమస్యలు నిర్ణీత సమయంలో స్వయంచాలకంగా పరిష్కరించబడతాయి మరియు కొన్నిసార్లు పరిష్కరించలేని సమస్యలు & సమస్యలను సమయం పరిష్కరిస్తుంది. చాలా మంది ప్రజలు ఎదుర్కొంటున్న అనేక సమస్యలు ఉన్నాయి.

ఉదాహరణకు, చాలా మంది ప్రజలు విద్యా సమస్యలు, ఉద్యోగ సమస్యలు, ప్రేమ వ్యవహారాల సమస్యలు, వివాహ సమస్యలు, వ్యాపార సమస్యలు, రాజకీయ సమస్యలు, సివిల్ & క్రిమినల్ కేసుల సమస్యలు, పిల్లల సమస్యలు మొదలైన వాటిని ఎదుర్కొంటున్నారు. తప్పులు & తప్పులు చేస్తే, ఈ సమస్యలన్నింటినీ భరించవలసి ఉంటుంది. మనం మనిషిగా జన్మించినప్పటి నుండి, ఒక మంచి జీవితాన్ని ఎలా గడపగలడనేది మిలియన్ డాలర్ల ప్రశ్న. జీవితంలో డబ్బు సంపాదించడం కంటే ఆప్యాయతతో కుటుంబ బంధాన్ని పూర్తి చేయడం ద్వారా జీవిత చక్రం పూర్తి చేయడం కూడా అంతే ముఖ్యం. వాస్తవానికి, డబ్బు సంపాదించడం అవసరం, కానీ జీవితాన్ని గడపడానికి డబ్బు సంపాదించడానికి సరైన మార్గాన్ని ఎంచుకోవాలి.

సరైన మార్గంలో డబ్బు సంపాదించడం ఒక కోణం అయితే అక్రమంగా సంపాదించడం మరో కోణం. కానీ అవినీతి పద్ధతిలో అక్రమంగా డబ్బు సంపాదించే వ్యక్తులు ఏదో ఒక రోజు సమస్యల్లో పడటం ఖాయం. చాలా సందర్భాలు ఉన్నాయి. అవినీతి నిరోధక బ్యూరో, సెంట్రల్ బ్యూరో ఆఫ్ ఇన్వెస్టిగేషన్, ఎన్‌ఫోర్స్‌మెంట్ డైరెక్టరేట్ ఇన్‌కమ్ ట్యాక్స్ డిపార్ట్‌మెంట్, రెవెన్యూ డిపార్ట్‌మెంట్, వివిధ బ్యాంకులు, సెంట్రల్ ఎక్సైజ్ డిపార్ట్‌మెంట్, ఆర్థిక మంత్రిత్వ శాఖ జప్తు చేసిన అక్రమ ఆస్తులు, ప్రభుత్వ అధికారులు మరియు వ్యాపారవేత్తలు అక్రమ మార్గాల ద్వారా సంపాదించిన అక్రమ ఆస్తులు, నగదు & బంగారం , రిజర్వ్ బ్యాంక్ ఆఫ్ ఇండియా, హోం వ్యవహారాల మంత్రిత్వ శాఖ మరియు సేల్స్ టాక్స్ డిపార్ట్‌మెంట్ మొదలైన ఇతర శాఖలు. ఈ డిపార్ట్‌మెంట్ల ద్వారా పట్టుబడిన వ్యక్తులు వివిధ సెక్షన్ల క్రింద బుక్ చేయబడతారు. అనేక సందర్భాల్లో కూడా, అనేక సందర్భాల్లో, సోదరులు, సోదరీమణులు, దగ్గరి బంధువులు, స్నేహితులు మరియు దూరపు బంధువులకు సంబంధించిన ఆస్తులు, నగదు & బంగారం స్వాధీనం చేసుకోవడం మరియు జప్తు చేయడం జరుగుతుంది. ఇది ప్రధాన బాధితుడు మరియు నిందితులకు పెద్ద ఇబ్బంది.

పెద్ద అవినీతి సొమ్ము చాలా వరకు లక్షల్లో నడుస్తున్న పెద్ద కుంభకోణాల్లో చేరి ఉంది. ఇలా నల్ల, అవినీతి సొమ్మును వివిధ దేశాల్లోని వివిధ ప్రైవేట్ విదేశీ బ్యాంకుల్లో ఉంచారు. అలాంటి నల్లధనాన్ని, అవినీతి సొమ్మును పబ్లిక్ టాయిలెట్లు, ప్రభుత్వ ఫంక్షన్ హాళ్లు, ప్రభుత్వ మాల్స్, ప్రభుత్వ ఉచిత సినిమా థియేటర్లు, పేదలకు అనుకూలమైన ఇతర సౌకర్యాల నిర్మాణ సౌకర్యాల కోసం ఉపయోగిస్తే, దానిని అందరూ ప్రశంసిస్తారు. నిజమే, ఈ నల్లధనం మరియు అవినీతి సొమ్ము సాధారణ ప్రజలకు మరియు సామాన్య ప్రజలకు చెందినది. అది ప్రజల సొమ్ము. పన్నుల ద్వారా ప్రజలు రకరకాలుగా డబ్బులు చెల్లిస్తున్నారు. ప్రజలు ఉచితంగా జీవించడం లేదు. ప్రజలకు ఉచిత ఆహారం లేదు. ప్రతి ఒక్కరూ తమ జీవనోపాధిలో సంపాదించి తినాలి. ఏదైనా వ్యాపార రంగంలో సహేతుకంగా అధిక అర్హత లేదా అభివృద్ధి చెందితే తప్ప, గణనీయమైన డబ్బు సంపాదించే అవకాశాలు పరిమితం. అవినీతి పద్దతుల్లో చిక్కుకుంటే తప్ప, ఒక్కరాత్రిలో ఎవరూ భారీ ఆస్తులు సంపాదించలేరు. అలాంటి అవినీతిపరులు ఏదో ఒక రోజులో శిక్షకు గురవుతారు. అటువంటి సమయంలో ఈ అవినీతిపరులు తీవ్రమైన ఆరోపణలు, పరిణామాలను ఎదుర్కోవలసి ఉంటుంది మరియు నాలుగు గోడల జైళ్లలో పడవలసి ఉంటుంది. ప్రభుత్వం మరియు దాని వివిధ శాఖలు, పైన చెప్పినట్లుగా, ఇటువంటి అవినీతి నేరాలను ఎల్లప్పుడూ మూడవ కన్నుతో చూస్తాయి. మూడవ దేశంలో ఎల్లప్పుడూ చూడండి & చూడండి. అనేక "వాచ్ డాగ్" సంస్థలు ఉన్నాయి, దీని విధి మోసగాళ్ళపై మరియు అవినీతి విషయాలపై ఎల్లప్పుడూ అప్రమత్తంగా ఉంటుంది.

దేశ ఆర్థిక వ్యవస్థను వెనక్కు నెట్టిన అనేక వేల మిలియన్ రూపాయలు/డాలర్లు/పౌండ్లు మొదలైన అనేక పెద్ద కుంభకోణాల్లో కేంద్ర, రాష్ట్ర స్థాయిలో పలువురు మంత్రులు, ప్రభుత్వ అధికారులు ప్రమేయం ఉన్నారనేది బహిరంగ రహస్యం. -సీట్లు. ఈ స్కాన్‌లు దేశ పేద ఆర్థిక వ్యవస్థను ప్రతిబింబిస్తాయి మరియు అంతిమంగా సామాన్యులు పన్నుల రూపంలో వచ్చే ఖర్చులు, జీవన వ్యయం పెరుగుదల మొదలైనవాటిని భరించాల్సి ఉంటుంది. ఈ స్కామ్‌లు, ఉదాహరణకు, కొన్నింటిని చెప్పాలంటే – బోఫోర్ స్కామ్ , బొగ్గు కుంభకోణం, 2G టెలికాం స్కామ్, ఇండియన్ స్టాక్ మార్కెట్ మానిప్యులేషన్ స్కామ్, స్టాంప్ పేపర్ స్కామ్, CWG స్కామ్. వివిధ శాఖల పాలన కంటే దేశ రాజకీయ పని వ్యవస్థ బలంగా, శక్తివంతంగా ఉన్నట్లు కనిపిస్తోంది. కొన్నిసార్లు, సమస్యలను రాజకీయీకరించడం మరియు రాజకీయ పార్టీలకు మద్దతు ఇచ్చే అగ్ర ప్రభుత్వ ప్రమేయం కారణంగా ప్రభుత్వం వివిధ స్కామ్‌లను లాగుతుంది మరియు ప్రభుత్వ అంతర్గత వర్గాల నుండి వచ్చిన అగ్ర VVIP నాయకులను మిడాస్ టచ్ చేస్తుంది.

ప్రభుత్వాన్ని ప్రశ్నించేదెవరు? ప్రభుత్వాన్ని ప్రశ్నించే ధైర్యం ఎవరికైనా ఉందా? వివిధ స్కామ్‌లపై ఎవరైనా ప్రభుత్వాన్ని ప్రశ్నిస్తే, అలాంటి వ్యక్తులు ఇబ్బందుల్లో పడటం ఖాయం మరియు ఒక రోజు లేదా మరొక రోజు సమస్యలను ఆహ్వానిస్తుంది. అయితే, స్కాన్ సమస్యలు మరియు ఇతర అవినీతి సంబంధిత విషయాలు లోక్‌సభ, రాజ్యసభ మరియు రాష్ట్ర అసెంబ్లీ కార్యకలాపాల సమయంలో మాత్రమే హాట్ టాపిక్‌లుగా కనిపిస్తాయి. అందరికీ తెలిసినట్లుగా, వివిధ ప్రభుత్వ సంస్థలు, విచారణ కమీషన్లు మొదలైనవి, స్కామ్‌లకు సంబంధించిన సమస్యలను అనేక సంవత్సరాలుగా లాగుతాయి. జారీ చేసిన ఏదైనా 'స్కాన్ నివేదికలు' కూడా ప్రభుత్వానికి సమర్పించబడతాయి, తదుపరి చర్యలు ఉండవు మరియు అలాంటి 'విచారణ నివేదికలు' అన్నీ 'కోల్డ్ స్టోరేజీ'కి పంపబడతాయి.

ఇలాంటి పరిస్థితుల్లో ‘ఎవరు ఎవరిని ప్రశ్నిస్తారు?’ మోసగాళ్లపై చర్యలకు ‘పిల్లికి గంట’ ఎవరు వేస్తారు? ఇది అంతులేని విషయం. సినిమా సినిమా ముగింపులో, 'ది ఎండ్' ఉంటుంది; కానీ, ఇక్కడ ‘స్కామ్‌లు’లో ‘ముగింపు’ లేదు. పాత స్కామ్‌ను మరచిపోవడానికి, ఒక పెద్ద స్కామ్ కోసం వేచి ఉండి చూడవలసి ఉంటుంది. కొన్ని ప్రత్యేక న్యాయస్థానాలు ఈ స్కామ్ కేసులను నిర్వహిస్తాయి మరియు ఈ స్కామ్ కేసులను తదుపరి విచారణను నిర్వహిస్తాయి. అయితే, ప్రతి ఒక్క కుంభకోణంలోనూ భారీ ప్రజాధనం మరియు భారీ ప్రభుత్వ సొమ్ము చేరి ఉంది. అంతిమంగా బాధపడేది సామాన్యుడే. ఎవరు ఎవరిని నిందిస్తారు? జవాబుదారీ ఎవరు? విషయాలు ఎలా కదులుతాయి? భవిష్యత్తులో జరిగే స్కామ్‌లను ఆపడానికి ప్రభుత్వ వ్యూహం ఏమైనా ఉందా? పాత మోసాలను ప్రభుత్వం ఎలా నిర్వహిస్తుంది? ‘ఆర్థిక మోసగాళ్లు, మోసగాళ్లు మరియు నేరస్థులను’ చట్టపు పుస్తకంలోకి తీసుకురావడానికి కేంద్ర ప్రభుత్వం మరియు ప్రతి రాష్ట్ర ప్రభుత్వాలు ఏదైనా ‘ప్రత్యేక రహస్య ఏజెన్సీలు’ లేదా ‘రహస్య దర్యాప్తు బృందాలను’ ఏర్పాటు చేస్తున్నాయా? అలా అయితే, పాత మోసాలను మూసివేయడానికి ఎంత సమయం పడుతుంది? అనేది వేచి చూడాల్సిన అంశం.

దొంగిలించడం, ఫోర్జరీ చేయడం, అక్రమ సంపాదన, దేశంలోని నగదు సంపద ఆర్థిక వనరులను మోసం చేయడం మరియు విదేశీ బ్యాంకు ఖాతాలకు నల్లధనాన్ని బదిలీ చేయడం, ఆర్థిక మంత్రిత్వ శాఖ, సెంట్రల్ బ్యాంక్, ఫెరా, ఫెరా, ఫెమా మొదలైన వాటి అనుమతులు లేకుండా, ఆర్థిక మోసం ఆర్థిక అవకతవకలు మరియు తీవ్రమైన నేర, ఆర్థిక, పౌర మరియు ఇతర దర్యాప్తులపై దృష్టి సారించి నేరస్తులను బుక్ చేయడానికి మరియు అటువంటి నల్లధనాన్ని భారతదేశానికి తిరిగి తీసుకురావడానికి ఆర్థిక నేరాలు అవసరం. అటువంటి సందర్భాలలో, ప్రభుత్వం/పబ్లిక్/పెట్టుబడిదారులు/సంస్థల డబ్బును తిరిగి చెల్లించేందుకు వీలుగా నేరస్థుల ఆస్తులను స్వాధీనం చేసుకోవచ్చు. ఈ కేసుల్లో, న్యాయపరమైన ప్రమేయం, హోం వ్యవహారాల మంత్రిత్వ శాఖ, పోలీసు శాఖ మరియు పౌర పరిపాలన విభాగాలు మొదలైనవి ‘నిర్దేశించిన విధానం ప్రకారం, న్యాయ వ్యవస్థ ద్వారా నల్లధనం పునరుద్ధరణ ప్రక్రియలలో విధిని కలిగి ఉంటాయి. కొంతమంది నాయకులు మరియు రాజకీయ పార్టీ పెద్దలు, స్కామ్‌ల విచారణ పురోగతి గురించి అడిగినప్పుడు, టర్కోయిస్ స్పీడ్‌లో దర్యాప్తు జరుగుతున్న తీరుకు వారు కొంత ‘మొసలి కన్నీరు’ అని చెప్పారు.

పరిస్థితి ఇలాగే ఉంటే, 21వ శతాబ్దం పోయి 22వ శతాబ్దం ఖచ్చితంగా వస్తుందని ఎవరైనా అనుకోవచ్చు, అప్పటికి చాలా మంది సీనియర్లు, వృద్ధులైన రాజకీయ, సివిల్, అడ్మినిస్ట్రేషన్ పెద్దలు, దౌత్యవేత్తలు అంతరించిపోవచ్చు, ఈ స్కామ్ కేసులన్నీ కనుమరుగై పోతాయి. "పరిష్కరించబడని మిస్టరీ స్కామ్‌లు", "తెలియని & స్వీయ-వివరణకు మించిన కారణాలు" మరియు లేదా "భూమిపై లేని" స్కాన్‌లో పాల్గొన్న వ్యక్తుల కారణంగా. చివరగా, ఈ పెద్ద స్కామ్‌లు ఎలా ముగుస్తాయో దేవుడికి మాత్రమే తెలుసు?

A small change of attitude

We need to understand that life is also like a game. As you know very well all games like Cricket, Lawn Tennis, Football and Shuttle Badminton etc., have their own rules and regulations. Let us take the popular game cricket, which is played in India. In this game there are rules and regulations such as number of players, a leader or the captain to lead, the rest of the members team squad, the specialist bowlers, the spin bowlers, fast bowlers and all the players are supposed to know the rules and regulations (laws) of the game.

To qualify to play such games and before they are selected in the National squad, they have to play local tournaments. There, the selection committee will be watching their performance in all aspects like their fielding ability, leadership qualities, their temperament, their behavior on and off the field and various other aspects of their personality.

What does it mean? It means that your future is decided by those who are experts in such game like cricket. And captain of the team should have all the leadership qualities. He should be able to handle the various skills of the players. He has to have full plan of the game before the match starts. He has to motivate his team members and he should also have positive temperament and he should be an example to the rest of the team members, and he should also be in a position to accept the defeat in a graceful manner and be able to take remedial measures. Imagine for instance, there are no rules and regulations, there are no judges, empires, referees whose word is final.

Can anyone see the game of cricket or any other game without rules and regulations, without selection committee, without judges, referees and empires. There will be chaos. Everybody will be playing according to their own rules and regulations and their own style and there will not be any spectators to watch the game. There will be chaos.

The simple truth is that we are living in a society. Society means lot of people around you who have come from different walks of life, with different skills and attitudes. If you have to be selected in a national team, you will be examined in various aspects other than your sporting skills. Mainly the way you behave with the management, your interactions with the co-players, the spectators, the Press, with everybody around you and who are controlling the destiny and you cannot say, cannot complain that you do not have any freedom. If you are given freedom, there will be chaos.

Even the game is also having certain limitations which you are supposed to follow like in a game of cricket the field is decided may be 80 or 75 yards and beyond that you are not supposed to play the game. It is very important, it is also fundamental law that since you are living with the people you should also respect their skills, their views, their experience, their opinions, take their suggestions and advice in a very sportive manner.

Unfortunately, if we look at the present-day scenario in the game of life, in our life people almost all the human beings have deep urge to get importance, recognition, name fame, status, appreciation and lot of other expectations on their own terms. But who has to give the recognition, appreciation, awards and titles? It is not you; it is not we; it is the people who decide. It has to be given by the people. But we cannot demand from the people that we need recognition, importance, status etc.

These basic laws, most of the people have forgotten today. That is the reason in today’s society there are lot and lot of problems, mainly inter relationship is very problem. There it seems your psychological needs like whatever we have named just now the name and fame, recognition etc. are not fulfilled. Hence most of us, we get frustrated, we are angry. A number of suicidal cases are increasing. There are cases of depression. There are cases of divorces for a small thing or a small issue is mainly because we only think from our side. We do not follow the rules and regulations that lay down by the society. We think that we are a special and we have all freedom to behave as we like. What is the end result? The end result is that you will be frustrated because people will not give any recognition because you demand. Your relationship with others also will be having a very big problem and you end up in getting frustrated. That addiction and lot of other negative things will be controlling your life. Hence, we need to take some time to analyze. Why the things are going in astray in our life?

I see lot of people have immense talents and positive qualities but unfortunately, they do not understand the basic laws of game of life. They are always one sided. They only see from their point of view. They do not regard that the coin has two sides. To gain something you have to lose something.  To lose something whole heartedly without feeling anything is a positive quality. Then only the nature will reward whatever you need. If you are giving love to others, in return you will also get love. If you respect the laws, general rules and regulations of the society you will also be respected and this is very fundamental truth.

On daily basis we need to have introspection of what happened. This introspection we have to do before going to bed every day by reviewing the entire day’s activities how we behaved during the daytime with office people, with family members, friends and with colleagues. Because of us how many people were happy and how many people were unhappy. We have to analyze ourselves without bias on daily basis. This will help us to overcome any shortcomings we have which is common factor with everybody and improve our relationships.  A small change of attitude in our life will bring about great happiness, unlimited happiness, joy and peace.

Only thing is, we should respect others when we need others to respect us. It is two-way process, not one way process, not one-sided process. There has to be exchange of energies in equal shares. It is very simple. Take life as very easy, very casual. Don’t think of anything serious and don’t try to be emotional because whenever you are emotional your rational thinking will disappear and always have a practical attitude and there are lot of small techniques and tips which we can easily master in order to control situations and also the people in very harmonious way. Life is not complicated at all. We only make it complicated. By following simple truths, simple things, we can bring about lot of happiness around us and enjoy our lives to fullest extent possible. If you want to be successful, all you need is to be open-minded. And don’t try to react instantly. Take some time and respond.

We would like to share our knowledge by discussing various means and methods of improving inter personal relationships (IPR), how to improve the skills, various skills and how you can get appreciation, recognition, social status and whatever you need in your life by following few small techniques. 

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 వైఖరి లో మార్పు

ఇప్పుడు ఒక మంచి విషయాన్ని మీకు చెబుతాను. ప్రతీ వారు సొంతంగా జీవితంలో ఎదగాలంటే, కొన్ని విషయాలు తప్పనిసరిగా పాటించాలి.

చదువుతున్నవారు, చదువుకున్నవారు, ఉద్యోగాలు చేసేవారు, వాణిద్య సంస్థలు నడిపేవారు, పొలిటికల్ ఫీల్డ్ లో ఉన్నవారు, కార్పొరేట్ సంస్థలలో పనిచేసే వారు, కార్మికులు, ఇంకా మాట్లాడితే అందరికీ ఇప్పుడు చెప్పే విషయాలు చాలా ఉపయోగపడుతాయి. ప్రతీవారు కొన్ని కమ్యూనికేషన్ స్కిల్స్ నేర్చుకోవాలి, సమయానుగుణంగా.

కొన్ని సందర్భాలలో, మనం ఎదుటి వారితో మాట్లాడేటప్పుడు, జాగ్రత్తగా మాట్లాడాలి. ఎందుకంటె, కొన్ని సార్లు, తప్పుడు మాటలు మాట్లాడితే కొంపలంటుకుంటాయి. బదనాం అవుతాం, ప్రజలు విశ్వసించరు, మనమీద నమ్మకం ఏర్పడదు.  ఎవరితో ఎలా మాట్లాడాలి, ఏవిధంగా మాట్లాడాలి, ఎప్పుడు మాట్లాడాలి, ఎందుకు మాట్లాడాలి, దేనిగురించి మాట్లాడాలి, అనే విషయాలు తెలుసుకోవాలి. మనిషిని బట్టి, బిజినెస్ చేసే విధానాల బట్టి మాట్లాడాలి. అందుకే అన్నారు పెద్దలు, లోక జ్ఞ్యానం తెలుసుకోవాలని. అప్పుడే ప్రతీ వారు జీవితంలో ఉన్నత స్థాయికి చేరుతారు. అప్పుడు మన జీవన విధానం మారుతుంది, సంపాదన పెరుగుతుంది, ప్రజలలో పలుకుబడి పెరుగుతుంది.

ఇలాంటి కమ్యూనికేషన్ స్కిల్స్ నేర్చుకోవాలంటే కొంత ఓపిక ఉండాలి, నేర్చుకోవడానికి ఉత్సాహం చూపించాలి. మనం ఇప్పుడు కొన్ని విషయాలు, మాట్లాడుకుందాం. ఆ తరువాత్త ఒక్కటొక్కటి వివరంగా చెబుతాను.

మొదటిది. 

మన వైఖరిలో చిన్న మార్పు. దీనినే ఆ స్మాల్ చేంజ్ అఫ్ ఆటిట్యూడ్ అంటారు.

రెండవది.

మనసులో దృష్టి పాటించాలి. దీనినే ఫాలో యువర్ ఇంట్యూషన్  అంటారు .

మూడవది. 

మర్యాదలు మనిషి స్వభావాలు. దీనినే మన్నెర్స్ అండ్ మేనరిజం  అంటారు.

ఇలా చెప్పుకుంటూ పోతే ఒక వంద విషయాలు మనం చర్చించుకోవచ్చు రాబోయే కాలంలో. కాబట్టి, ఇప్పుడు, "మన వైఖరిలో మార్పు" అంటే  “A Small Change of Attitude” గురించి క్లుప్తంగా ఈ వీడియో లో చెబుతాను.

జీవితం కూడా ఒక ఆట లాంటిదని మనం అర్థం చేసుకోవాలి.  క్రికెట్, లాన్ టెన్నిస్, ఫుట్-బాల్ మరియు షటిల్ బ్యాడ్మింటన్ మొదలైన అన్ని ఆటలకు వాటి స్వంత నియమాలు మరియు నిబంధనలు ఉన్నాయని మీకు బాగా తెలుసు. భారతదేశంలో జనాదరణ పొందిన క్రికెట్ ఆటను తీసుకుందాం. ఈ గేమ్‌లో ఆటగాళ్ల సంఖ్య, లీడర్ లేదా లీడ్ చేయాల్సిన కెప్టెన్, మిగిలిన సభ్యుల జట్టు, స్పెషలిస్ట్ బౌలర్లు, స్పిన్ బౌలర్లు, ఫాస్ట్ బౌలర్లు వంటి నియమాలు మరియు నిబంధనలు ఉన్నాయి మరియు ఆటగాళ్లందరూ నియమాలను తెలుసుకోవాలి మరియు ఆట యొక్క నిబంధనలు (చట్టాలు) తెలుసుకోవాలి.

అటువంటి గేమ్‌లు ఆడేందుకు అర్హత సాధించడానికి మరియు జాతీయ జట్టులో ఎంపికయ్యే ముందు, వారు స్థానిక టోర్నమెంట్‌లను ఆడాలి. అక్కడ, సెలక్షన్ కమిటీ వారి ఫీల్డింగ్ సామర్థ్యం, ​​నాయకత్వ లక్షణాలు, వారి స్వభావం, మైదానంలో మరియు వెలుపల వారి ప్రవర్తన మరియు వారి వ్యక్తిత్వానికి సంబంధించిన అనేక ఇతర అంశాలు వంటి అన్ని అంశాలలో వారి పనితీరును చూస్తుంది.

దాని అర్థం ఏమిటి? అంటే క్రికెట్ లాంటి ఆటలో నిష్ణాతులైన వారే మీ భవిష్యత్తును నిర్ణయిస్తారు. మరియు జట్టు కెప్టెన్‌ కు అన్ని నాయకత్వ లక్షణాలు ఉండాలి. అతను ఆటగాళ్ల వివిధ నైపుణ్యాలను నిర్వహించగలగాలి. మ్యాచ్ ప్రారంభం కావడానికి ముందు అతను పూర్తి ప్రణాళికను కలిగి ఉండాలి. అతను తన జట్టు సభ్యులను ప్రేరేపించాలి మరియు అతను కూడా సానుకూల స్వభావాన్ని కలిగి ఉండాలి.  మరియు అతను మిగిలిన జట్టు సభ్యులకు ఆదర్శంగా ఉండాలి.  అతను కూడా ఓటమిని సునాయాసంగా అంగీకరించగల స్థితిలో ఉండాలి. ఉదాహరణకు ఊహించండి,

నియమాలు మరియు నిబంధనలు లేకుండా, ఎంపిక కమిటీ లేకుండా, న్యాయనిర్ణేతలు, రిఫరీలు మరియు సామ్రాజ్యాలు లేకుండా ఎవరైనా క్రికెట్ ఆట లేదా మరేదైనా ఆటను చూడగలరా. గంగరగోళంగా తయారవుతుంది. గొడవలు వస్తాయి. కొట్టుకుంటారు. ప్రతి ఒక్కరూ వారి స్వంత నియమాలు మరియు నిబంధనలు మరియు వారి స్వంత శైలి ప్రకారం ఆడతారు మరియు అప్పుడు ఆటను చూడటానికి ప్రేక్షకులు ఉండరు.

అలాగే మనం సమాజంలో జీవిస్తున్నాం అన్నది సత్యం. సమాజం అంటే మీ చుట్టూ ఉన్న చాలా మంది వ్యక్తులు వివిధ రంగాల నుండి, విభిన్న నైపుణ్యాలు, వైఖరులు కలిగి ఉంటారు. మీరు జాతీయ జట్టులో ఎంపిక కావాల్సి వస్తే, మీ క్రీడా నైపుణ్యాలు కాకుండా వివిధ అంశాలలో మిమ్మల్ని పరిశీలిస్తారు. ప్రధానంగా మీరు మేనేజ్‌మెంట్‌తో ప్రవర్తించే విధానం, సహ-ఆటగాళ్లు, ప్రేక్షకులు, ప్రెస్‌లతో మీ పరస్పర చర్యలు, మీ చుట్టూ ఉన్న ప్రతి ఒక్కరితో విధిని నియంత్రిస్తున్న మీరు చెప్పలేరు, మీకు స్వేచ్ఛ లేదని ఫిర్యాదు చేయలేరు. మీకు స్వేచ్ఛ ఇస్తే గందరగోళం ఏర్పడుతుంది.

ఆట కూడా కొన్ని పరిమితులను కలిగి ఉంది, క్రికెట్ ఆటలో మీరు అనుసరించాల్సిన మైదానం 80 లేదా 75 గజాలుగా నిర్ణయించబడుతుంది మరియు అంతకు మించి మీరు గేమ్ ఆడకూడదు. ఇది చాలా ముఖ్యమైనది, మీరు వ్యక్తులతో జీవిస్తున్నందున మీరు వారి నైపుణ్యాలను, వారి అభిప్రాయాలను, వారి అనుభవాన్ని, వారి అభిప్రాయాలను కూడా గౌరవించాలి, వారి సూచనలు , సలహాలను చాలా స్పోర్టివ్ పద్ధతిలో తీసుకోవాలి.

దురదృష్టవశాత్తూ, మన జీవితంలో నేటి పరిస్థితులని పరిశీలిస్తే, దాదాపు అందరూ తమ స్వంత నిబంధనలపై ప్రాముఖ్యత, గుర్తింపు, పేరు కీర్తి, హోదా, ప్రశంసలు మరియు అనేక ఇతర అంచనాలను పొందాలనే లోతైన కోరికను కలిగి ఉంటారు.  అయితే గుర్తింపు, ప్రశంసలు, అవార్డులు, బిరుదులు ఎవరు ఇవ్వాలి? ఇది మీరు కాదు; అది మనం కాదు; అనేది నిర్ణయించేది ప్రజలే. అది ప్రజలే ఇవ్వాలి. కానీ మాకు గుర్తింపు, ప్రాముఖ్యత, హోదా మొదలైనవి కావాలని ప్రజల నుండి డిమాండ్ చేయలేము.

ఈ ప్రాథమిక చట్టాలను, నేడు చాలా మంది ప్రజలు మర్చిపోయారు. అందుకే నేటి సమాజంలో చాలా సమస్యలు ఉన్నాయి, ప్రధానంగా ఇంటర్ రిలేషన్ చాలా సమస్య. మేము ఇప్పుడే పెట్టుకున్న పేరు మరియు కీర్తి, గుర్తింపు మొదలైనవి మీ మానసిక అవసరాలు నెరవేరలేదు. అందుకే మనలో చాలా మంది నిరాశకు గురవుతాము, కోపంగా ఉంటాము. అనేక ఆత్మహత్యల కేసులు పెరుగుతున్నాయి. డిప్రెషన్ కేసులు ఉన్నాయి. చిన్న విషయానికి లేదా చిన్న సమస్యకు విడాకులు తీసుకునే సందర్భాలు ఉన్నాయి, ఎందుకంటే మనం మన వైపు నుండి మాత్రమే ఆలోచిస్తాము. సమాజం నిర్దేశించిన నియమ నిబంధనలను మనం పాటించడం లేదు. మనం ఒక ప్రత్యేకమైన వారమని మరియు మనకు నచ్చినట్లుగా ప్రవర్తించడానికి మాకు స్వేచ్ఛ ఉందని మేము భావిస్తున్నాము.

చివరి ఫలితం ఏమిటి?

చివరి ఫలితం ఏమిటంటే మీరు నిరుత్సాహపడతారు. ఎందుకంటే మీరు డిమాండ్ చేసినందున ప్రజలు ఎటువంటి గుర్తింపు ఇవ్వరు. ఇతరులతో మీ సంబంధం కూడా చాలా పెద్ద సమస్యను ఎదుర్కొంటుంది,  మీరు నిరాశకు గురవుతారు. ఆ వ్యసనం మరియు ఇతర ప్రతికూల విషయాలు మీ జీవితాన్ని నియంత్రిస్తాయి. కాబట్టి, విశ్లేషించడానికి మనం కొంత సమయం తీసుకోవాలి. మన జీవితంలో విషయాలు ఎందుకు దారి తప్పుతున్నాయి?

చాలా మంది వ్యక్తులు అపారమైన ప్రతిభను మరియు సానుకూల లక్షణాలను కలిగి ఉన్నారని నేను చూస్తున్నాను కానీ దురదృష్టవశాత్తూ, వారు జీవితం యొక్క ప్రాథమిక నియమాలను అర్థం చేసుకోలేరు. వారు ఎల్లప్పుడూ ఒక వైపు. వారు తమ దృక్కోణం నుండి మాత్రమే చూస్తారు. నాణేనికి రెండు వైపులా ఉంటాయని వారు భావించరు. ఏదైనా పొందాలంటే ఏదో కోల్పోవాలి. ఏదైనా అనుభూతి చెందకుండా హృదయపూర్వకంగా ఏదైనా కోల్పోవడం సానుకూల లక్షణం. అప్పుడు మాత్రమే ప్రకృతి మీకు కావలసిన ప్రతిఫలాన్ని ఇస్తుంది. మీరు ఇతరులకు ప్రేమను అందిస్తే, మీరు కూడా ప్రేమను పొందుతారు. మీరు సమాజంలోని చట్టాలు, సాధారణ నియమాలు మరియు నిబంధనలను గౌరవిస్తే మీరు కూడా గౌరవించబడతారు మరియు ఇది చాలా ప్రాథమిక సత్యం.

ప్రతిరోజూ మనం ఏమి జరిగిందో ఆత్మపరిశీలన చేసుకోవాలి. ఈ ఆత్మపరిశీలనను మనం ప్రతిరోజూ పడుకునే ముందు, ఆఫీస్ వ్యక్తులతో, కుటుంబ సభ్యులతో, స్నేహితులతో మరియు సహోద్యోగులతో పగటిపూట ఎలా ప్రవర్తించామో మొత్తం రోజు కార్యకలాపాలను సమీక్షించుకోవాలి. మన వల్ల ఎంత మంది సంతోషంగా ఉన్నారో, రోజూ పక్షపాతం లేకుండా మనల్ని మనం విశ్లేషించుకోవాలి. ప్రతి ఒక్కరితో సాధారణ అంశంగా ఉండే ఏవైనా లోపాలను అధిగమించడానికి, సంబంధాలను మెరుగుపరచుకోవడానికి ఇది మాకు సహాయపడుతుంది. మన జీవితంలో ఒక చిన్న వైఖరి మార్పు గొప్ప ఆనందం, అపరిమిత ఆనందం, శాంతిని కలిగిస్తుంది.

ఒకే విషయం ఏమిటంటే, ఇతరులు మనల్ని గౌరవించాల్సిన అవసరం వచ్చినప్పుడు మనం ఇతరులను గౌరవించాలి. ఇది రెండు-మార్గం ప్రక్రియ, ఒక మార్గం కాదు, ఏకపక్ష ప్రక్రియ కాదు. జీవితాన్ని చాలా తేలికగా, చాలా క్యాజువల్‌గా తీసుకోండి. ఏదైనా సీరియస్‌గా ఆలోచించకండి మరియు ఉద్వేగభరితంగా ఉండటానికి ప్రయత్నించవద్దు ఎందుకంటే మీరు భావోద్వేగానికి గురైనప్పుడల్లా మీ హేతుబద్ధమైన ఆలోచన అదృశ్యమవుతుంది మరియు ఎల్లప్పుడూ ఆచరణాత్మక వైఖరిని కలిగి ఉంటుంది మరియు పరిస్థితులను నియంత్రించడానికి మేము సులభంగా ప్రావీణ్యం పొందగల అనేక చిన్న పద్ధతులు మరియు చిట్కాలు ఉన్నాయి. మరియు ప్రజలు చాలా సామరస్యపూర్వకంగా ఉంటారు. జీవితం అస్సలు సంక్లిష్టమైనది కాదు. మేము దానిని సంక్లిష్టంగా మాత్రమే చేస్తాము. సరళమైన సత్యాలను, సాధారణ విషయాలను అనుసరించడం ద్వారా, మన చుట్టూ చాలా ఆనందాన్ని తీసుకురావచ్చు మరియు మన జీవితాలను పూర్తి స్థాయిలో ఆనందించవచ్చు

మీరు విజయవంతం కావాలంటే, మీకు కావలసిందల్లా ఓపెన్ మైండెడ్. మరియు తక్షణమే స్పందించడానికి ప్రయత్నించవద్దు. కొంత సమయం తీసుకుని స్పందించండి.

ఇంటర్ పర్సనల్ రిలేషన్స్ (IPR), నైపుణ్యాలు, వివిధ నైపుణ్యాలను ఎలా మెరుగుపరుచుకోవాలి మరియు మీరు అనుసరించడం ద్వారా మీరు ప్రశంసలు, గుర్తింపు, సామాజిక స్థితి మరియు మీ జీవితంలో మీకు కావలసిన వాటిని ఎలా పొందవచ్చో వివిధ మార్గాలను మరియు పద్ధతులను చర్చించడం ద్వారా మా జ్ఞానాన్ని పంచుకోవాలనుకుంటున్నాము.

ప్రతీ వారం లేదా ప్రతీ పది రోజులకి ఒక్కొక్క అంశం మీకు వీడియో రూపంలో వివరించడం జరుగుతుంది. కాబట్టి, మీఱందరూ, అనేక విషయాలను నేర్చుకోవచ్చు. మీరు అందరూ వినండి అంతే. మీకు మీరే అన్ని విషయాలు, లోక జ్ఞ్యానము నేర్చుకుంటారు.

బయట డబ్బులు పెట్టి నేర్చుకోవడంకంటే, ఇలాంటి వీడియో లో చూసి, ఇందులోని సారాంశాన్ని గుర్తించండి. డబ్బులు ట్రైనింగ్ సెంటర్ లలో ఫీజ్ రూపంలో కట్టి వేస్ట్ చేయకండి. డబ్బులు ఊరికే రావు. ఎంతో కష్టపడితేగానీ మీరు అనుకొన్నది సంపాదించలేరు.

ఈ ప్రోగ్రాం మీకు నచ్చినట్లైతే, మీరు తప్పక లికె చేసి, కామెంట్ చేసి, షేర్ చేసి, సబ్స్క్రయిబ్ చేసి, బెల్ గంట ను కూడా మరచిపోకుండా నొక్కండి.

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 by

Mantri Pragada Markandcyulu, D.Lt.,

Author, Story, Song, Script, Screenwriter, Dialogue Writer

Sonng writer/Lyricist

Email: mrkndyl@gmail.com

+91-9951038802

Hyderabad, Telangana State, India

JEALOUS MIND

Written by:

Mantri Pragada Markandeyulu, Litt.D.,

Author, Story and Songwriter

Email: mrkndyl@gmail.com

Hyderabad, India

Voice Rendition by:

HRM Dr. Prof. Queen Eden Soriano Trinidad

The Prime Minister

The State of Birland

(Camp: Philippines)

It is a city and thickly populated residential locality.  There are two poor friends, who live with their family people and children.  Both these friend families live separately in a hut side by side, in a 50 squares land.  Of course, both these two friends are in the middle age group.  These two friends earn their Lively-hood by doing small petty vegetable business and fruit business.  Both families participate in all the house-hold functions, pujas and attend marriages of their known persons.  They lived happily.

As one knows, any family purchases any gold item or silver item or any garments or furniture on any major festival occasion, the neighbour family feels curse and jealous.  It is nothing but natural.  Everywhere the cursing and feeling jealous of somebody do happen.  In every of a family, these cursing expressions could be seen.

On one day, due to elections season, a well-known person of that city floats a new political party for contesting elections in that city.  This new political party invited all the people of that city to enrol party membership.  These two friends who live as neighbours enrol their names in the new political party. One friend, who was showing much interest in politics, works hard for the party and the party recognizes his services and gives a responsible position as an important functionary to this party.       

During the election days, this friend works hard along with others and canvasses for the party.  This new party majority member who was nominated to contest the elections gets elected.                  

This friend, who worked hard and earns some good amount of money through pyravi (negotiations) and as middleman also and earned money, and then this friend purchases a good piece of land around 400 square yards and constructs a four storied building with ultra-modern design in a span of two years.  He even purchases brand new car. Then this rich friend and his family members shifts from their Hut to this new building and lived happily after discarding the vegetable and fruit business.

This rich friend hut friend and could not spare any time to attend any function with his hug friend also stopped frequently speaking to his close neighbour hut friend and could not spare any time to attend any function with his hut friend.

Then the problem started with hut friend and his family.  There was a peak jealousy and cursing by the hut friend.  Every day, the rich friend who is presently living in a hut used to see the new building.

One Priest of a Temple who is a famous palmist and astrologist nearby used to observe the “poor hut friend” who is observing and seeing the four storied building every day and asked the Hut Friend, why you are seeing everyday this new building? What is the matter? Then the Priest asked the Hut Friend, if you want money, gold, silver or good job, I will get you.  Then the Hut Friend replied, no sir, I do not want anything.  Then the Priest asked the Hut Friend, what you need to become like your neighbour friend who has built the building in front of your Hut.  Then the Hut Friend replied to the Priest.  Sir, please make by rich friend to live like me in a Hut.  The Hut Friend also told the Priest that my rich friend should not live in that building and the Government to demolish that new building and razed to the ground, in view of his illegally earning the money through “Pyravis” (negotiations) and as “middleman”

Then the Priest told the Hut Friend that the fate of a person cannot be changed.

The Priest also told the poor Hut Friend that opportunities and luck knocks the door and at that time, one has to utilize such opportunities.

Then the Hut Friend kept mum and used to never watch his rich friend’s building from the next day.  Poor Hut Friend and his family members continued to live in their Hut without any murmuring, jealous and sadism. So, the meaning of this story is that
“murmuring, jealousness and sadism never pay’s”.  Only sheer hard work pays a person that too lucks also to favour such person.

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IDENTITY, SECURITY AND HEGEMONY AND GOVERNANCE

CONFLICT WORLD

What I Thought, This World Today.

It Is Not the World, I Expected.

Reigns of Rulers, Years Rolled.

Rules Have Gone, It's Dictators Era

Confrontations and Conflicts Still in Vogue.

There Is No Day Without a Conflict.

Combats Have Become Order of The Day.

Intra-Country Combats Are the Regular Features.

No Day Left for Inter-Party Conflicts.

Whole World Watches Ongoing Combats.

Who Support Whom, For Support and Sanctions?

World Combats Sure, A Day Is Not Far

War Like Conflict, Looks to Be Common.

People Suffer Due to Power Sake Rule.

Value to Life, No Country Thinks.

War May Erupt, Can Lead to Casualties.

People Gave Power, To Rulers to Rule.

People Trusted Governance, To Keep the Environment Good.

People's Ambition Enact the Rule.

Peoples Aspirations, Hope to Be Good

Misunderstandings and Precipitations Are Often Seen.

Which Is Not Great, As Said and Done?

All Countries Are Great, As Countrymen Feel So

Dangers Are Seen Through Terrorism Strikes.

People Are Hit and Killed Through Wars of Terrorism.

Countless Casualties in War Hit Zones.

Epics and Diseases Hit the People for Long.

Properties Get Damaged and Never Recovered in Life.

Lives and Property Hit Through Chemical Bombings.

Normal Life Dislocated Through-out The World.

Lost Economy Never Regains for Decades.

Hopeless Conditions People Have to Confront.

Governments Collapse Over the Years.

Peoples' Sufferance Led to Epidemic Diseases.

Wiseman Decisions Lead to Avoidance of Conflicts.

Ceasefire Agreements Can Stop Combats for A Breath.

Judgements and Decisions Are Good for Peace.

Who Blames Who, Is the Point of Thought?

Policies and Governance Are the Duty of Government.

Efficiency of Rulers Prove the Handling of Situation.

This gives brief enlightenment, how the things happen and move in this world of super-powers. One can analyse here that which country is big and which country is great. For that matter, each country is retaining its own identify and security. International relations, hegemony means, each country has to preserve their culture, and national activities in a proper order, to maintain peace, humanity and man-kind, while maintaining cordial intra and inter-country relations for the establishment of humanity. The main theme of each Government governance should be to eradicate poverty and diseases both Corona and other epidemic diseases. Each country should strive hard to provide minimum basic facilities like food, cloth, shelter and other minimum facilities to live in. What we are seeing now a days, are something different. I want to present a present hot topic in this world now is -

Identity and Security, Hegemony and Governance.

BRAHMOS

Indo Russian BrahMos Supersonic Missiles

LONG RANGE MISSILE

The most tensional ammunition missiles.

What is meant by long-range missiles?

These missiles are most powerful ones.

There cruise missiles are used as conventional or nuclear war-head can attack carrier cargos and other fighter jets and the enemy’s targeted places.

Can also damage enemies’ artillery and other installations beyond the stipulated distance range.

These latest long-range missiles can attack and destroy opponent’s artillery and property in the range up to a distance of 600 KMs.

The specifications are varied in these missiles.

If these types of danger-missiles are used, there seems to be large scale destruction and damages.

These missiles are used in critical war zones to attack and smash enemy-countries.

Russia has X-22 cruise missiles.

Even there are multiple-rocket launcher systems.

But these long-range danger missiles are very powerful.

BRAHMOS. Backdrop Story:

The present Indian hot topic in the defence sector is Philippines.

Philippines is an all-important nation now for India.

Why important nation Philippines?

Yes. There is a strong reason and work-out pertaining to the defence deals with Philippines.

There is a place called “GUAM”. This is a Territory.

Here in this GUAM, there is a Naval base belonging to America.

This Naval base is called Anderson Naval Base.

Even People of China and South East Asia speak about this Philippines Defence Deals.

Whoever takes birth in this GUAM Territory, they are treated and recognized as citizen of America by the American Government.

Now Philippines is an important nation to India.

Why means India has a defence deal BrahMos worth USD375-million.

This big BrahMos deal is to be completed in next coming 3-4 years’ time.

This Defence deal is the high technology sales to India.

The target sales of BrahMos sales worth USD 375-million are to be exported to Philippines.

In fact, if anybody talks about this subject, they may be surprised and get a laugh.

Why because, people around the world knew well that India makes largest imports pertaining to all defence products/items/equipment. This is India’s habitual customary aspect till now.

People get surprised about India’s defence item exports to other countries such as Philippines.

Philippines declared that they need few batteries of BrahMos Supersonic Missiles.

For Philippines, this is the beginning of this imports contract from India. This is the first of its kind. This contract deal does not like by America and China.

America expresses its anguish and angry on Philippines. Why means, America has its Air-base and even Naval-base at GUAM in Philippines. America says to Philippines Government that defence deals are to made with America or China and not from India.

America says that Indo-Russia Defence and other Collaborations are not acceptable.

America further says that Defence BrahMos items should not be imported by Philippines from India. This subject is a very big subject in the Defence Circles.

As everybody knew well, that USD375-million is not a small amount to India. India is exporting this worth BrahMos equipment and items to Philippines under its first contract defence deal. As said earlier, India till now imports defence equipment from other countries and also from America.

Suddenly these days, India sells and exports Defence items to other countries like Philippines. Yes. This is a reality and happening now. India exports BrahMos items under USD375-million contract to Philippines. This is the truth. India is very proud for its perceptions and thinking-lines.

What is the reason and why Philippines procure BrahMos from India?

Yes. The answer and reasons are here to Philippines.

Let it be Afghanistan or Ukraine, for example. America promised to safeguard these countries on par with NATO countries. How can America safeguard Ukraine and Afghanistan, when America itself is in economic crises and is in emergency? Sitting somewhere, how can America help, support and safeguard Ukraine, Afghanistan and NATO countries.

This America’s prevailing situation well grasped by Japan, Vietnam, Taiwan, Philippines and other smaller nations. Say for example, if some other countries attack these countries, it tantamount to attacking America. This is called Security Guarantee.

Philippines apprehension is that if any conflict and combat occur with so called big nation China, America won’t help Philippines. This is the thinking of Philippines. So, Philippines wanted to think and grow independently and has a strong reason not to believe America. Why means, Philippines thinks that India is a trust-worthy nation.

For example, to mention here, that during 2017 year, Bhutan was safeguarded by Indian Defence Forces from the so-called China’s Defence Attack. China knew well that as long as India’s Defence Forces are deployed at Bhutan, China gets defeated and cannot win over Bhutan. China also knew well that it cannot combat against Indian Defence Forces which were already deployed at Bhutan. So, China army/soldiers left Bhutan in higher mountains after 70 days stay.

So, China has become a common enemy, let it be Japan, Taiwan, Vietnam or Philippines and other smaller nations in the South East Asian Countries. All these countries believe India and repose confidence and feels trust-worthy to depend on India for all its Defence Deals like BrahMos.  These nations won’t believe America and especially China.

BrahMos includes Akash, Surface, Air Missiles and other sophisticated and high technology defence equipment.

Pinaka is a multiple rocket launcher produced in India and developed by the Defence Research and Development Organisation (DRDO) for the Indian Army.

Yes, these also Philippines is ready to import and buy from India. So, in the next couple of years, this USD375-million worth BrahMos Defence Deals like supersonic missiles India can sell to Philippines.  Philippines is ready to import all the BrahMos items from India without any hesitation.

Indo Russian BrahMos Supersonic Missiles

BrahMos

Is BrahMos Indian or Russian? BrahMos - the name represents the fury of Brahmaputra and the grace of Moskva rivers. The company was established with an authorized capital of $250 million with 50.5% from Indian side and 49.5% from Russian side. Brahmos. This missile from India and Russia is the fastest cruise missile in the world.

Is BrahMos the fastest missile? Yes, The BrahMos (also designated as PJ-10) is a medium-range stealth ramjet supersonic cruise missile that can be launched from submarine, ships, aircraft or land, notably being the fastest supersonic cruise missile in the world.

How strong is BrahMos? Yes, The BrahMos can carry a 250 kg submunition warhead or a 200 or 300 kg high explosive semi-armor-piercing warhead. It can be launched from the ground, from a vertical launch system, from a ramp launcher, or from the air.

Do you know What is the speciality of BrahMos? Yes, Batteries of the BrahMos missile land-based systems have been deployed along India's land borders in various theatres. The land attack version of BrahMos has the capability of cruising at 2.8 Mach speed and with the upgraded capability, the missile can hit targets at a range of up to 400 kilometers with precision.

One should know, which missile can stop BrahMos? Yes. It is non-other than Barak-8.

One should know that which missile is best in world? Yes, it is R-36M (SS-18 Satan). This Russian Intercontinental ballistic missile is the heaviest and most powerful in the world.

Can BrahMos destroy aircraft carrier? Flying over a distance of 260 kilometers, the missile effectively destroyed the vessel. This test is a game changer for Indian offensive prowess in the Indian Ocean region as the missile will act as a potent aircraft carrier killer due to its speed, range, and launch platform.

Which is fastest missile in world? BrahMos. The Indian/Russian BrahMos, currently the fastest operational supersonic missile capable of speeds of around 2,100–2,300 mph, is the most well-known supersonic missile.

Does Russia have BrahMos missile? Indian defense sources say Russia has its own version of anti-ship Brahmos, but not the land-attack ones.

Can BrahMos carry nuclear warhead? BrahMos, a nuclear-capable missile, is one of the world's fastest cruise missiles and can be fired from land, sea and air.

Is BrahMos the best missile in the world? The BrahMos missile, an Indo-Russian joint venture, has a range of 290 km and is the fastest cruise missile in the world with a top speed of Mach 2.8 (nearly three times the speed of sound)

Can BrahMos be self-destroyed? Experts say conventional missiles like the BrahMos do not have “self-destruct mechanisms” though strategic or nuclear missiles like Agni and Prithvi are said to have a kill switch.

Can Pakistan reverse engineered BrahMos? They won't be able to completely reverse engineer Brahmos at best they would able to copy some part of the missile.

How many BrahMos Missiles in India? Brahmos is fastest SUPERSONIC cruise missile, as I have accentuated it's fastest only among the other supersonic cruise missiles, there exists hypersonic cruise missiles which are much faster. 14,000 BrahMos are made by India till now

Who invented missile in India? After working for two decades in Indian Space Research Organization and mastering launch vehicle technologies, Dr Avul Pakir Jainulabdeen Abdul Kalam took up the responsibility of developing indigenous guided missiles at DRDO as the Chief Executive of Integrated Guided Missile Development Programme (IGMDP)

Hypersonic weapons India has? India operates approximately 12 hypersonic wind tunnels 

BrahMos was not intercepted by Pakistan. Why? The Pakistani military and political leadership were reportedly aware of the overflights by India's MiG-25 but chose to remain silent.

BrahMos get fired from India earlier? Indian Navy successfully test-fired an advanced version of the Brahmos supersonic cruise missile from a stealth destroyer in the Indian Ocean.

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